Social skills are are the skills we use everyday to communicate and interact with others. For many children, social skills present as a challenge at school and home. They include verbal and non-verbal communication, including speech, body language and facial expressions. Strong social skills are demonstrated when one knows how to behave in social settings, and understand implied communication with others.
Social skills are important in maintaining friendships and positive interactions with others. They are crucial in handling challenging situations effectively, recognising and managing emotions in themselves and others. Similarly, they are also involved in regulating behaviours through thoughtful decision making and reflecting on feelings.
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(Kids matter, 2015)
How to tell if a child experiences difficulties with social skills...
If a child experiences difficulties with social skills, they may:
Avoid eye contact
Lack turn taking abilities
Struggle with body language i.e. standing too close/far
Difficulty interpreting non verbal communication including facial expressions, tone and body gestures
Difficulty asking appropriate questions
Difficulty responding appropriately in changing social circumstances
Difficulty with executive functioning in play and social situations
Difficulty describing and responding to other emotions and also regulating their own
Difficulty initiating and responding to joint attention
Experience difficulties understanding hidden social cues